Tuesday, 15 November 2016

My MSC cruise to Mozambique

Welcome readers,

One month until the end of the year!
 And that means the inevitable burn out and the insane rush to finish all that was planned for this year.  I am usually extremely busy this time of the year, and find that by the time December comes around my body signals time for an extended break, and the gradual slow down ensues.

So for some holiday planning and ideas, I have finally put together a post on my Durban break and MSC cruise to Mocambique earlier this year.

Durban

We travelled during the Easter school holidays, so the weather was still relatively good and promised to be pleasant. Once we had booked our cruise, we thought it would be good to spend a few days showing the kids around Durban. We stayed along South Beach, mainly for the proximity to the harbour and for ease of embarkation, and chose to explore this less advertised area of Durban. 
After the 2 hour pre-dawn flight, we collected our rental car and headed to the hotel, luckily we were able to obtain an early check-in to relax and grab some breakfast. The Garden Court staff were friendly and accommodating, and the hotel was functional enough to cater to our family needs.

We spent 4 days exploring Durban, visiting the popular tourist areas- UShaka Marine World, Moses Mabhida Stadium, Umhlanga- walked along the promenade and did some beach combing.
A vacation is not complete without some mall hopping, namely Gateway and La Lucia and of course indulging in some spicy bunny chows. Since my youngest would be celebrating his 12th birthday on the cruise, we indulged him in some birthday shopping and Durban was a goldmine of soccer paraphernalia and kits. Just up his alley, he was over the moon indeed!
The time spent in Durban prior to the cruise was just what we needed to get ready for our cruise.

The Friday morning we were packed, returned our rental and ready to set sail. What I hadn't realised was that we could have opted for a fast track embarkation, without which we stood around queueing for more than an hour to embark, while the fast track passengers slipped by us through immigration. So if you're not up to queueing (in the Durban heat) enquire about the fast track embarkation process.
Since the cruise would be stopping off at international shores, we needed to pass through immigration, so unabridged birth certificates were required for all kids- remember this when booking the Mocambique cruise option.

MSC Cruise

When we finally arrived on the ship, administration bits such as buying drink booklets, excursion options and charging the deposit to the card (or depositing cash) for any expenses (drinks being the main one) one would incur whilst on the cruise. While the luggage was being dropped off at the cabins, a buffet lunch was served and the party atmosphere kicked in. The pool deck was alive with music booming and people milling about. Everyone gathered at the rails to watch the liner depart from the harbour, with waves and shouts from passengers. We settled into our cabins after the emergency drill and took in the tranquil views from the balcony.
I chose balcony cabins as I really enjoy being able to see outdoors, and watching the horizon sail by. Important note: Ensure that you're stocked up on anti motion sickness pills, my entire family started taking medication two days prior to embarkation, although it still took some getting used to the constant swaying.

The evening was spent exploring the retail shops, wandering about the various decks, the sit-down dinner and signing Ihsaan up for the youth club. The teens decided to join us for dinner, and explore on their own, making a note of the time the disco and parties started on the upper decks.

When we woke up on day 2, we were approaching the Bazaruto Island, a stretch of undisturbed white sandy beaches with the MSC banners waving in the breeze. There were several excursions which passengers had to pre-book for, snorkelling, Turtle Island exploration, shopping excursion with lunch at a beach bar/restaurant, or just enjoying the stark white sand and moderately warm, still sea.
We chose the Turtle Beach excursion, which involved a 'tour' (bumpy ride on the back of a bakkie or 4x4) through the dense vegetation, with a pitsop to meet the Inhaca King/ Chief, who is a highly respected elder in the village. He held a brief 'court' with us, telling us about his life and the island and its workings. Thereafter we trekked through some more bush for about 40 minutes, in sweltering heat on the back of an open 4x4 bakkie. We stopped at the foot of a range of huge sand dunes, which we would have to scale in order to access Turtle Beach. Hopefully we would be able to see some turtle nesting activities which occurs on this breathtaking beach. On the other side of the sand dunes we were greeted with the most awe inspiring beach view. There was undisturbed shores as far as the eye could see, against a backdrop of azure waters- truly a splendid sight. Unfortunately there were no turtles to be sighted on that day.
After spending half a day exploring Inhaca Island, we chose to return to Bazaruto beach where lunch was awaiting. By this time the beach was packed to capacity, everyone flocking to the water to cool down in the tropical heat. Back to the ship, where I expected fewer people, but even though it looked as if all the passengers were frolicking on the sandy shore, there were still so many onboard. Time for some rest, grab a session in the spa and chill until dinner time. 

Day 3 was Ihsaans birthday, so after breakfast he joined the youth club in their mini chef workshop while we took in some fresh air by the pool. This didn't last too long before we left the sultry heat behind and enjoyed a leisurely day taking in the theatre, the shops, a fulfilling lunch and some more shopping. The birthday boy was treated at dinner time and thereafter a party at the youth club. He also spent the day buying as much duty free candy as he could find!
The next day we arrived in Durban harbour, and just like that our tropical cruise was at an end. A perfectly leisurely break, where I was not required to cook, clean or entertain the kids. I also didn't have to plan any sight seeing or excursions as this was done by MSC. 

Overall, this was the perfect balance between a city break and a leisurely island cruise. The kids thoroughly enjoyed themselves, the adults were relaxed and free and food ready any time of the day. 

A few pointers:
1. The showers in the cabin are pretty tiny but functional.
2. Ensure that anti nausea meds are taken before you depart and again when the ship starts moving.
3. The activities at the junior clubs are great up to age 7, thereafter the activities are limited up to age 12.
4. There are movie screenings in the Business Centre, which is smaller than an actual cinema, 
but will work for the kids.
5. All expenses onboard is in US $ so it can be pretty pricey with ZAR currency, so buying the booklets upon embarkation is useful to save some pennies. 

Other than that, it was my second time on an MSC cruise, and while everything was still the same (even the sit -down dinner to a degree), I had the most amazing time!

Enjoy the pics:
Left to Right:
Ihsaan loves the airport atmosphere; Dad and boys; Keeping busy while waiting to board;
The most majestic pre-dawn flight
Left to Right:
Rides on South Beach; Mom & Boys; Moses Mabhida Stadium; Gateway shopping
View from the top of Moses Mabhida Stadium
A Day at Moses Mabhida, it is so precious to see how family vacations strengthen the bond between them
A Day at Ushaka and beach swimming
And after a few days exploring Durban, embarkation day for our MSC cruise!

Lesson: If you didn't get the fast pass, you'll end up waiting close to an hour
to pass through Immigration!

And finally through Immigration and ready for cruise life!
Our first Sunset onboard the MSC, view from our cabin
                                  Day two: Excursion to Bazaruto and Inhaca Islands, Mocambique
Always time for a selfie
The view as we sail away from the docked cruise liner
The shore of the uninhabited Bazaruto Island
Left to Right:
Couple shot on the beach; the first glimpse of the Bazaruto island; View from the excursion point;
MSC in the distance; activities on the beach have all been arranged by MSC; excited Ihsaan ready
to explore!
The form of transport to the Inhaca Island was on a tiny speedboat (much to my surprise) -Top
Left to Right: I was taken aback at how many passengers were squashed onto this little boat;
abandoned buildings as one arrives on the shore; the idyllic beaches;
 a beach bar is merely some patio chairs and umbrellas & a restaurant is a wooden structure on the main road of the town.
Our transport into the heart of the island via 4x4
As we leave the centre of the city (essentially one main road) the infrastructre is basically a rough dirt road
Granted an audience with the chief/king of the Inhaca Island

All sweaty at the top of the last sand dune, its only downhill from here

Arriving on Turtle Beach after scaling extreme sand dunes

To access this beach one has to climb immense sand dunes in the sweltering heat, so it is only visited by tourists.
But how beautiful and undisturbed is the shoreline?
A moment in the surf on the shores of the Turtle Beach, Inhaca Island

This birthday boy enjoyed the day immensely, from smoothies at the pool bar, to the magic show at the theatre,
some retail therapy and a mini chef workshop at the youth club



Birthday dinner before he joins the kids club birthday celebration


The final sunset with the birthday boy

Caio for now,
RuBe xoxo


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Friday, 11 November 2016

Follow your passion..

Welcome lovelies, 

It's unbelievable that we're already almost halfway through November, and everywhere I look the festive cheer has started to infiltrate. 
So as Christmas bells start ringing and carols fill the air at every single store — my business doesn't slow down. In fact it’s a time where entrepreneurs start calling me in and business owners wanting a consult on strategy. Business owners reflect back on the year, re-evaluating plans and decisions made this past year and how to tweak it for the year ahead. I find consulting with entrepreneurs and business owners rewarding and fulfilling, as opposed to larger corporates where the business soldiers on even in the event of a mistake as they have the economies of scale to handle obstacles, unlike an entrepreneur. 
It is precious to be allowed into the space of an entrepreneur, for them to put their livelihood on display for critical analysis. I appreciate the courage it takes, and the strength required to have someone poking around with your ‘baby’. The joy experienced when we put our heads together to work on new ways to evolve the business is priceless, and even more so when the strategy works! 
Being a business owner is primarily about pursuing a passion, for some it’s about making a difference and giving back, paying it forward in a sense. An entrepreneur is able to find a way to make a dream a reality, to work towards the dream and find joy in the toil to realize the dream. An entrepreneur takes the risk, makes themselves vulnerable in the pursuit of a goal. But at the end of the toil, long hours, grey hairs and stress lines, they feel a sense of satisfaction. There is no big question “WHAT IF” and even if they failed at first, it was a lesson learnt, and an opportunity to attempt a different avenue. Everything does not always work out on the first try, but the entrepreneur by nature is always doggedly snapping at the heels of success — fully aware that things may just fall into place around the next corner. 

I feel privileged to engage with entrepreneurs on a daily basis, I feel fortunate to be privy to ideas which turn dreams into a reality. The passion is contagious, it is a beautiful thing to witness and even better to see an end result. If you find yourself with a dream, but glued to the comfort of security and stability, just remember that it starts with only one step. It starts with following and engaging a passion, something we tend to keep dormant. Unleash the potential, whether it’s on paper, on a business plan and consult it every day. Pretty soon, it will look more like an inevitability and less like a pipe dream. 

“Every time you state what you want or believe, you’re the first to hear it. It’s a message to both you and others about what you think is possible. Don’t put a ceiling on yourself."

- Oprah Winfrey

Today's lookpost features a relaxed look, worn on a Sunday afternoon when hubs and I decided to go out and enjoy the beauty that Cape Town has to offer (sans kids). 
I paired a white sleevleess blazer with a striped shirt, jeans and sneakers. This look will also be suitable for a work look, paired with tailored slim pants and a pair of heels.
Versatile and light for Summer!





  







Outfit details:

Superbalist sleeveless blazer (now on sale: shop here)
Banana Republic shirt from Stuttafords
Guess Jeans
Converse SA Sneakers
Rebecca Minkhoff bag
VArious bracelets
Old Khaki scarf
Vogue sunglasses from Sunglass Hut

Caio for now, 
RuBe xoxo


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Tuesday, 8 November 2016

Go Beauty revolutionizes spa bookings


Hi Beauties!

Many of you who follow my blog regularly or social media platforms will know that I love new technology, innovations and just generally anything aimed at making life easier. 

When I book travel arrangements, I religiously go to Tripadvisor and check out traveller's reviews and photos, as opposed to the establishments own photos. This has served me well, and I can make an informed decision, with no disappointments. 
So I'm really thrilled with Go Beauty's newest development. First an app which one can download, make appointments online, one can also view the closest salon, search for specific treatments and even buy spa vouchers via the app!  Another great function of the app which uses GPS location is the notification of specials being offered at salons close to you. This alone is very exciting, convenient and perfect for busy professionals. 

Founder and director, Tatjana addressing media at the launch

Go Beauty have now launched a full website, which in addition to the above also provides "Tripadvisor-style website for beauty establishments". 

'Currently listing over 400 salons, it is South Africa’s largest collection of salons, spas, beauty, hair, nails, laser, aesthetic clinics, spray tan technicians and makeup artists in one place, but our goal is much higher, to reach every corner of the country.'


'Each salon has their own page with all their info contained on one page. In order to make the site truly user-friendly, we made it ‘slimline’ - no unnecessary information, only the essence of the ‘experience’ of the salon. A lot of information is therefore only represented by icons: eg. the main services offered are illustrated by icons, while the brands they are using are represented by their logos.
We also want you to get a real feel of the place, so we are listing their amenities: are you going to receive a cup of a coffee while you are waiting for your hair colour to develop; is there a scent in the air that makes you feel relaxed or are you able to listen to soothing music in a luxurious environment while your facial mask is doing its magic; can you step into a garden after your treatment or rest in a relaxation room.'



When I see specials being offered by salons, and will immediately visit the website to check out the establishment. Here are a few of my concerns when evaluating a spa:
  1. Parking: I need the spa to have parking readily available and preferably not off-street parking.
  2. A relaxation area is very important, as I like to unwind a bit before the treatment- chances are I've just rushed from a previous engagement.
  3. Atmosphere and ambiance is key, rather than being rushed into a treatment room to get undressed, I prefer a gentle welcome.
  4. I recently visited the Mangwanani Spa at the Waterfront and was shocked to discover that I needed to leave the premises and use the public loo in the office park! Had I known this beforehand I would not choose this particular spa. So now, high on the list is changing room facilities and bathrooms.
  5. Images are crucial, it gives me the general idea of the layout, upkeep and general luxury of the spa. This is especially where the client images and review will be appreciated.
Have a look at the site, which is still pretty new so reviews haven't been posted yet. But just imagine how awesome it will be once the reviews are readily accessible? I can't wait!

Caio for now, 
RuBe xoxo



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Friday, 4 November 2016

Reality of a work from home mum

Happy Friday lovelies!

This week I've been reflecting on the roles of moms in the home, specifically work-from-home moms or business owners. While it is a well known fact that stay-at-home moms have a crazy workload, it is equally crazy for those of us trying to work in between trying to be around for the kids. 

I read an article yesterday about new moms need to refuel, being stuck at home with little ones and no time for themselves. It really gets even more crazy as they get older, and have a million commitments, exams, study sessions, sport, and the never ending need for food. I actually need to plan my day to ensure I have time to cook, and provide nutritious meals for my studying boys. When they were little, and I worked in a full time job while studying, I found life to be more manageable even without the help of a housekeeper at the time. Now I have a flexi-time occupation (which means late nights and weekends), they are older and able to do more for themselves; and still it is a mammoth task to remain sane and on top of everything. I even use time saving methods like Uber to cart my teenagers around when I really can't be in three places at the same time! I am mindful of needing to schedule time outs, and I usually do - but it is generally postponed as I have a work commitment or mommy duty to perform. The fact that I don't actually get annual leave either adds to  the mommy- fatigue; whereas before I used to get study leave and annual leave. And I used this time to chill, and actual study- now I don't have the luxury of leave until our family vacations. Which aren't really vacations if you're a mum- with self catering and so on. 

I have mostly been a career woman and mum, for a year a stay-at-home mum, and for the past two years, working from home. The struggle is real. Try having a work call, with bickering kids just outside the door, or to have them storming into your workspace with a mundane question like "why didn't you buy the Wellness Warehouse muesli?" Yes, really. I also have to schedule in time to shop organic vegetables, Wellness Warehouse goodies as I'm very keen on good nutrition- which comes at a time cost. Take-out is rare, and the boys are only treated on a weekend. 
Or try having an hour massage (which I did this week) only to find a million watsapp, missed calls and text messages from your son at home. Wanting to know what time you'll be done, how far you are etc etc etc. He should actually be studying, but he needs my presence around...
However, I have noticed a huge difference in my relationship with the boys, we talk more and spend more time in each others company. They are also more settled and calm, and less prone to excessive mood swings!

I am sure I am not alone, and there are many women who juggle each day. I am open to tips, advice and best practices. I wish all parents well with the exam stress and all the best for the students writing. 

Today's OOTD, features an embellished puffy boho top from Something Pretty, a boyfriend jeans and wedge sandals from Zara. I also decided to change the turban style a bit for this easy Saturday morning look. 

















Outfit details:
Something Pretty embellished top
Woolworths RE boyfriend jeans (shop here)
ZARA wedge sandals
Various bracelets
Scarf Stop scarf
Lovisa earrings
Giorgio Armani sunglasses from Sunglass Hut (shop similar here)
Kate Spade handbag bought abroad

Caio for now, 
RuBe xoxo

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