RuBe’s Closet - Modest Fashion and Lifestyle

Monday, 17 August 2015

Transitional jumpsuit OOTD

Dear Readers,

This week has really chased Summer away and the chill is now palpable. Giving rise to the need for transitional outfits, and just because I’m not ready to let Summer go, I mix and layer items for the changing seasons.

School has also started again, and with it the crazy schedule has kicked in. At times I wonder how I managed to cope with all this running around, homemaking, coaching and mentoring kids and working really hard on a career!

As things happens, the more you have to do, as a mom you just squeeze it into the time you do have. Multitasking in an attempt to keep everyone happy, losing sleep because the brain is trying to sort out things for the next day - that’s how we do it! I have realised recently, that it is essential to remember (despite knowing this) to take time out for myself. The art is to not feel guilty, as one does, and I often do, that I could be doing something else for the kids, the home, husby, family and so on and so on…

And so, I realise that I know all these things, I know all the tips to remain a sane SAHM - I have forgotten to take that time out. Time to get my act together and plan, add those time outs to the diary… And unlike my corporate job, which encroached on my family time and life, it still had an end at some point. My current ‘occupation’ doesn’t have an end, it continues as long as I am conscious and awake and able to squeeze in that extra errand or trip to school. Leave from my job used to entail carefully planned days off, spa trips, reading time, time to watch a movie or series catchup, lunches and even extra sleep so that I could return to the office refreshed! Now I try to fit in a massage and it has to be a quick trip before fetching kids from school, or read in the car whilst waiting outside music class.

I am therefore on a mission, to REMEMBER me in my daily tasks as a wife, mum, homemaker, administrator, bookkeeper … Wish me luck!

Today’s lookpost is a transitional one where I have layered a ’summery’ printed jumpsuit, but demonstrate how to wear it for Autumn, with a denim jacket and sneakers for an everyday SAHM. It can also be dressed up with heeled pumps, a warm longer length blazer for the office.

Outfit:

MrP jumpsuit (old)

Guess denim jacket

Old Khaki scarf

Adidas Adipure 360 sneakers

Necklace Collette Hayman

Forever New Rose gold earrings

Ted Baker handbag by Stuttafords

Caio for now,
RuBe xoxo

An Nur Streetstyle shoot

Hello again Readers!

It’s been a really short week which means all productivity needs to be squeezed into 3 days…*Sigh* But I’m not complaining as it means a few more ‘late’ mornings for me yay! This mommy business hard work….

About 2 weeks ago I was filmed for An Nur The Light’s street style feature. It was such an honour to be chosen and interviewed; and the day turned out to be unbelievably hot for an Autumn day. As I’ve said previously, I usually decide on the day what to wear so my outfit planning of the previous night was all in vain (as is the norm) and I chose a completely different look and outfit on the morning!

After much deliberation I finally decided on a look that encapsulates my style, classic with a bit of edge. It’s no secret that I love sequins and I own quite a few sequined pieces, I therefore chose this two year old sequined skirt that I picked up on a trip abroad. Denim is also a favourite and I usually add denim for some edge or to dress down an outfit, in this ensemble I tied it at the waist for an effortless laid back feel. Even though these two pieces are both from two seasons ago I still feel happy to wear them, a sign of their timelessness and quality.

My lace up caged heels and a pony hair clutch finish off the look.

Hubby shot this look in true street style fashion after the shoot.

To watch the interview and feature, please keep an eye on my page or social media for details on when the episode will be aired. An Nur, The Light is usually on Saturdays mornings at 11am, on SABC 3. Stay tuned for further details.

And some behind the scenes photos

Outfit details:

ZARA denim shirt (old)

River Island Maxi Skirt (old)

ZARA heels own import

Accessorize Clutch

Jo Borkett scarf

Necklace gifted

Lovisa earrings

Caio for now,
RuBe xoxo

Friday, 14 August 2015

Fearless Faux Fur Coat

Welcome Back readers and a Hello to new readers,

This has been a short week, but one filled with so many good things and I sincerely hope its been equally rewarding for everyone else. I believe in the power of positive thinking, of dreams and goals; and working to make that a reality. In the spirit of Women's Month, I urge every woman out there to take that inner strength and turn all your sorrows into lessons, step on those obstacles in your life and move into a place where your tomorrows are filled with promise.

This past weekend I attended the First Lady Affair, an event aimed at empowering women and highlighting the importance of taking time out to care for yourself. As women we are all caretakers and nurturing in various roles, as dutiful and loving daughters, as overloaded mums, caring spouses and hardworking employees and business owners. The message I walked away with was that there are times in life when you are beaten down, and we have all had those experiences, yet we carry on with poise and purpose. And despite our own baggage, we have no idea what the woman next to you on the bus, in front of you in the queue or driving that luxury car is dealing with. So be kind, always and try to reserve judgement - it's actually really therapeutic, to walk through life with this positivity.

Let's be strong women and make a concerted effort to uplift one another instead of adding to those life lessons beating us down.

Today's OOTD features a vintage fur coat, from Human Image, an outfit I put together for a mid week coffee date. I think its so important to dress for yourself, fearlessly, so even though this coat is just glam personified- I decided to make it work for a morning meeting. I paired it with part leather leggings, boots and a long length tunic white shirt (Few and Far Collection) under a knit. Living in Cape Town means layering to account for season changes in one day. All items except the coat and shirt are recycled from previous seasons, of course!

Outfit details:

Vintage Fur Coat from Human Image

Mango Sequin embellished knit

Spree.co.za Leggings (shop similar here)

Few and Far Collections shirt

Woolworths leather boots

Cotton On on beanie

Stance sequin socks from Spree.co.za (shop here)

Pauls Boutique shopper

Mimco bracelet

Colette Hayman necklace

Caio for now,

RuBe xoxo

Friday, 7 August 2015

Comfortable & Happy Chunky Knit

Hi Readers,

Things are pretty busy on my end with lots of exciting things happening behind the scenes, more will be revealed in due course. Even though this week didn't start off all that well (for me), it's always important to keep your eye on the end goal and work towards that. This applies to professional and personal situations equally, there are always bumps along the road, distractions which test your dedication and deviations on the path which pop up. However, while keeping your eye on the end prize, it's important to be open, not to close yourself down as you may just miss that soft knock of opportunity at the door.

With Monday being National Woman's Day, today's post is dedicated to all women, young and old alike. Life throws us so many curve balls, and whilst we all experience different challenges, we are all faced with them throughout our lives. They may be small, they may be life changing, but it's important to strive to handle them with grace. Today I posted the following quote on Instagram:

"Girls compete with each other.

Women EMPOWER one another."

It is so appropriate and unfortunately we are 'blessed' with many girls out there. I just hope that in due time the number of WOMEN will outnumber the girls, and we'll be able to teach, support and help each other instead of breaking each other down. There are too many toxic interactions, derogatory insinuations and energy sapping relationships draining your focus. If you find yourself in any of these situations, take a stand and make a change for the better... It can only start with you.

Today's post is all about comfort, being comfortable in your own skin, being brave to go make up free or even to make that small change towards a better and happier you. I love these oversized chunky knits (scored on the Forever New Sale), they are comfortable and warm, like a good friend. Anyone who knows me, knows that I love my denims, so I paired a fav t-shirt with even more comfortable sneakers....

Comfort. Make up free (only lip balm). Happy.

"Happy girls are the prettiest."

Audrey Hepburn