tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857605145918106579.post2169574844178346092..comments2023-12-14T14:12:32.408+02:00Comments on RuBe’s Closet - Modest Fashion and Lifestyle: Lessons Learnt from my 15 year oldRuBe's Closethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12544216581097985023noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2857605145918106579.post-64203101596006858272019-04-10T18:34:25.454+02:002019-04-10T18:34:25.454+02:00Oh why did I not read this post before picking up ...Oh why did I not read this post before picking up my daughter from school this afternoon after Connor's memorial service! She was really emotional as she told me about the tributes paid to him and his dad's reaction at the tree planting. I tried to get her to talk but she just clammed up. The past week has been an emotional roller-coaster of her randomly revealing a memory of him from primary school when they were in the same class, followed by unbreakable silence. As a parent I was feeling so helpless at not being able to get her to open up more. But, reading this post makes me realize that she is dealing with it in her own way (mainly by talking to mutual friends of theirs). So I probably should push less. Now just to deal with the fear she's been experiencing since his passing. The brutality of the deed has left her paranoid and anxious about trusting people. May Allah protect all our children from harm, Ameen Savouring mommy momentshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14876646609784614786noreply@blogger.com